Relationship Facilitator

Relationship Facilitator

Een van die belangrikste verhoudings wat afgeskeep word is die verhouding met jouself.
Is jy lief vir jouself, kan jy lief vir jouself wees. Jy kan nie liefde gee as jy nie liefde het nie.
Kom ontdek jouself en leer om jouself te vergewe en weer lief te wees vir jouself.

Verlief, verloof of getroud.

Waar twee mense is is daar konflik. Aanvanklik gaan alles goed dan begin klein goedjies/ gewoontes ons irriteer wat later onversoenbaar word. Wie is reg en wie is verkeerd. Die goeie nuus is Niemand is verkeerd nie, almal is reg uit sy verwysings raamwerk en persoonlikheid. Ons kan nie dieselfde dink nie, ons is uniek geskape. Daarom is dit belangrik om n Persoonlikheids Profiel ontleding te doen sodat ons mekaar se optredes beter kan verstaan. Ons is nie verkeerd nie net anders. 80% van konflik word veroorsaak deur misverstande.

Wie moet dit doen:
Almal wat ernstig is oor hul verhouding met n geliefde.

Voordele van dit is
Leer jouself ken
Ontdek jou maat se waardes
Leer wat het ons nodig van mekaar om die beste jy vir die ander persoon te wees.
Hoe kommunikeer julle.
Hoe hanteer julle konflik
Hoe beinvloed ons verlede ons verhouding
Die redes waarom sommige goed my grensloos irriteer en laat oorreageer
Wie moet watter besluite neem

We come from different homes with different upbringing and backgrounds and often with a lot of baggage. A young bride hoping to get away from her domestic circumstances or an abused young man fleeing his situation through marriage. We all then just hope it will work out.

Second marriages are taken on with the first marriage’s baggage still clinging on and the same mistakes are just being repeated. We are trapped in this vicious circle and believe that divorce is the only solution, but we have a choice and because we are standing so close to the painting we see only streaks, instead of the picture as a whole.

With Marriage Counselling, we want to help you discover each other again. Help you to understand why your spouse acts the way they do, why the other person might not be comfortable making their own decisions, why he or she does not like to socialize or why the other lacks tact. Just maybe, you’ll also discover your true self for the first time and have a better understanding of each other’s needs.

A chance to really respect each other, appreciate and accept each other for the very first time. The conflict stems from clashing views, ways of doing, communication styles and expectations, to name but a few! By comparing our Tall Trees Profile reports we often discover that the conflict is caused by very real differences in style and not by cruel intentions. We are more prone to forgive, find solutions and accept one another when we embrace the truth: We WILL differ because we ARE different!!

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